- I am in a verbally abusive relationship with my husband. I am called stupid, dumb etc..he even tells me I'm stupid for being with him. . . My self esteem is in the gutter.
- My boyfriend always said it was my fault he called me a names. I shouldn't have been late, because he had prepared dinner. . . I BELIEVED him.
. . The abuse happens after they have you believe in them. They make
you actually think, it's your fault they can't control yourself. . . I was brainwashed into thinking I'm fat, unattractive, nobody would want me while he was going to go on living his rocking life.
- The first time he made me cry he felt so bad I thought it would get better. But it never did.
I am called all sorts of names, told to shut the f*** up, that he
doesn't want to look at my stupid face. I never get an apology or if I
do it's "I'm sorry but really this is your fault."
- I have been with my husband for 16 years now and the last 10 years have been hell. I
never do anything right in his opinion. The food is never good enough,
the house never clean enough. I'm not thin enough. He calls me fat and
bitch in front of our children and now my little boy has started calling
me fat. How am I suppose to react to that? He tells me I am
worthless. He will not give me money when I need it. He tells me I don't
pay the bills so why should he give me anything? I don't know what to
do. I am so lost and alone.
- Every stressful moment in his life is taken out on me. His insults are so shocking I sit, stunned, as he tries to degrade me.
In the beginning, I trusted he meant the things he said, and of course I
would cry my eyes out. My face was always puffy from crying. Slowly I
noticed how my mind altered due to his insults. My self esteem was a
complete zero. . . Ex: "Your life is a joke." "Every decision you made in your life was a mistake." "You are a sh*t-head (because
I won Trivial Pursuit. How trivial.)" And worse and worse. He often
uses what others think against me. . . He uses my insecurities against
me.
- In the beginning I met a great guy, charming, smooth talking, talked himself up to everyone. He was s dream. Once we became official, my clothes weren't right, my hair was too messy, I was a c*nt. I embarrassed him etc.
I was told to have sex twice daily or he would leave me, my self esteem
dropped drastically. I went from successful to lazy and always wanting
to sleep. I did everything for him in order to make him happy. His
drinking became horrible, his fists hit the walls during a fight. I was never GOOD enough but he "loved me" and everything was for "my own good". Crying everyday, depressed, feeling "crazy". . .
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